Disclaimer

Disclaimer:


The things posted on this blog are facts. All of which are backed up with Dawn's own blog/internet posts, facebook/myspace pasts, texts or e-mails. There are no untruths being told here, only facts. Obviously, personal opinions and feelings are being shared as well as this is my personal story. Leonard "Butch" Mendes has absolutely no access, control, or involvement with this blog and Darius Mendes does not have access to view this blog. My intent with this blog is to share my personal story.

Mother of the Year

And the mother of the year award goes to...

DAWN OSTRANDER!!!

Today Darius called his mom to ask for his Passport and Social Security Card and his mother told him she "does not support him living here" and informed him that he was living here "illegally". She refused to send the documents that Darius needs for his new job and driver's license and all but hung up on him. She never ceases to amaze us. She is truly the most selfish, narcissistic human being I have ever know.

Thank God Darius is here and out of this crazy woman's grasp.



She's a classy broad

Not a lot to say about this one. Just wow. I guess some people's idea of a good time is not my idea of a good time. 


Drugs are fun

Obviously you can see that this posting is old; however, it still reflects Dawn's classy character and personality. Darius came to visit about two years ago and made a point to tell us how Dawn and Chris has a party and the next morning there was white powder on the counter tops. He asked me what it could be. Obviously, he already knew the answer. He plays these games - It's like he's telling without telling.

And again, she displays a higher level of intelligence by posting this on the World Wide Web for anyone to read.



Parenthood requires love, not DNA

Six month's have passed. She has not attempted to see her son and refuses to pay for one dime for his care, sports, school, or travel.


 
A deadbeat mother is a woman who puts herself ahead of the needs of her children. A woman who thinks because she has a vagina doesn't have to pay childsupport, or do anything the court demands her to do. They most likey suffer from a narcissistic personality disorder. They also do not understand there is a big diffrence between an actual mother, and a biological mother.











If only she had a brain

Dawn continues to drag us through court because her son refused to return home to her, and as a result of the court shenanigans the Judge ordered that the parties (Butch and Dawn) mediate their issues. The judge further specifically instructed the two work together in the best interest of the child.

I cannot go into specifics about what happened in mediation, nor was I present during mediation. I do know that Butch offered Dawn no child support obligation for Darius now or in the future if she would drop all the stupid court stuff, sign the new agreement and move forward. Dawn refused this offer. Never once during 3 hours of mediation did she ask or bring up the issue of seeing her kid again; it's been six months.

The one and only thing that Dawn requested during mediation was the ability to purchase Darius a new cell phone, (she is the one who disconnected his cell when he wouldn't return to Florida) and have arranged times to speak with him on that phone twice a week. She is pretending she cannot reach Darius. Phone records still show she has called for him zero times.

Naturally, Butch agreed to this request because it's stupid and makes no difference. You want to pay for Darius another new phone? Whatever!

On 05/28/2015 the below court order went into affect giving Dawn the only thing she wanted during mediation - the right to purchase another phone for Darius. As of 06/13/2015, 16 days later, Darius has still not received the phone.

I cannot wrap my head around the games this woman plays. She goes to mediation acting as if she had to bargain to buy Darius a phone in order to have contact with him and then she doesn't even buy the damn phone!?!?! What a complete waste of everyone's time, money, and resources. All the while, Darius is waiting on a cell phone. She is truly a lunatic - completely incapable of rationale actions.



Deadbeat Mom

Since June of 2012 Butch and Dawn have had in place a parenting plan that says they should split the cost of all extra-curricular activities. Dawn made a HUGE deal out of this in the past even insisting on mediation regarding Butch paying for 1/2 of Tae Kwon Do even though Butch didn't want Darius in Tae Kwon Do, and it was a complete waste of time and money. So clearly Dawn thinks both parties should split extra curricular activities, but apparently only as long as the child lives with her.

The Parenting Plan that has been in place for years
Dawn has refused to pay for one single thing since Darius decided to live here, and still refuses to send him his personal belongings that he's asked for.



Apparently she is in "full compliance" with the current court order by NOT paying for her 1/2 of Darius' extra curricular activities. She sent it to our attorney to tattle as well. She's a special kind of stupid.
Again, she has money for BOTOX, money for a new house, her hair, nails, vacations, etc., but refuses to send a dime to support her child. During financial disclosure Dawn was required to submit a copy of her savings accounts. She has thousands of dollars in her savings, but STILL refuses to support her child. All these years she's told everyone what a deadbeat dad Butch was WHILE HE WAS PAYING CHILD SUPPORT (I have the documents to prove it). The tables have turned and she truly is a deadbeat mom.

Karma is a big fat bitch.

BOTOX is more important than her child playing sports


Currently, Dawn and Butch are ordered to split the cost of all extra curricular activities, it's been this way for years. Dawn has refused to pay a single dime for anything and currently owes over $2,000. She is not interested in any way what's best for Darius. 


When Butch asked her to split the cost of soccer so Darius could play on this team she accidentally responded to Butch saying "Is he fucking kidding me?!!"
But GET THIS.... A few days prior to this text she had the money to spend $890.00 for BOTOX! So I guess $890.00 for botox is more important than letting your only child chase his dreams. 


UNBELIEVABLE!!!